America’s Most Sexually Curious States, Uncovered

Let's face it—when it comes to sex, curiosity is a big part of the game. Whether you're looking for new ideas to spice things up or just want to know what others are searching for, it turns out that some states are way more curious than others.

In fact, we’ve sifted through over 5.5 million sex-related Google searches to uncover the most sexually curious states in America. 

From kinky positions to health concerns, our data spills the beans on what each state is really curious about in the bedroom. We're not just talking about who's asking the most questions, but also what's got people scratching their heads (and maybe even other parts - based on the data)... 

So read on! You might be surprised to see what your state is up to when no one is looking!

New York tops the charts as America’s most sexually curious state

Turns out, New York isn't just the city that never sleeps—it's also the state that can't stop Googling about sex! With a massive 385,040 sex-related searches (that’s 197.49 searches per 10,000 residents), New Yorkers are clearly not shy about their bedroom interests. The Big Apple's residents seem particularly interested in exploring topics such as "sex positions," (60,500 searches) "BDSM," (40,500) and "anal” (27,100).

California follows closely behind, boasting 753,000 total searches and 193.50 searches per 10,000 residents. The Golden State shows a particular fascination with "strap-ons” (5,400), "nipple play," (3,600) and "role-playing” (2,400).

Here’s a look at the top 10 most sexually curious states:

The top 10 not-so-sexually-curious states

On the flip side, some states seem a bit more reserved in their online sex searches. 

West Virginia takes the cake for being the least sexually curious, with only about 120 searches per 10,000 residents. Montana's not far behind with around 116 searches per 10,000 people. 

Here are the 10 states that seem to keep their curiosity offline:

Whether you read into it as they know exactly what they want in bed and don’t need any tips, or they’re just not that interested in embracing their kinks; residents in Montana Googles sex-related queries the least, of all 50 states.

Following closely behind is West Virginia at 119.96 monthly searches per 10,000 people., then South Dakota rounding up the top three at 120.20. 

South Dakota and Idaho fall bottom three and four, suggesting that maybe it really is grim up north; with Kentucky sliding into fifth place, at 58,950 searches for sex a month.

What’s everyone searching for?

With 1,017,700 searches across all 50 states, it’s clear that many Americans are looking to spice things up in the bedroom by searching for “sexual positions”; straying away from the fail-safe missionary and doggy-style, in favor of something that requires a bit more flexibility and stamina.

However, there’s something to be said for the classic missionary, with it enjoying 181,670 monthly searches across the US – not far behind the way-more-uncomfortable-than-it-looks-and-completely-unsexy 69, at 208,710 searches.

BDSM comes in second place with 588,260 searches, showing that Americans are getting more adventurous with their intimate lives. And interestingly enough, “erectile dysfunction” pops up in the top ten for many states alongside queries about libido and arousal.

The kinky corners of America, uncovered

Our research uncovered some fascinating insights into the specific interests of different states. Let's dive into the kinkier side of America's bedroom curiosity:

• Virginia is the state that has Googled BDSM the most, with 20.78 searches per 10,000 people.
• New York leads in searches for anal, with 13.89 searches per 10,000 people, and also shows a strong interest in foreplay (2.79).
• Washington has a strong interest in pornography, with 8.42 searches per 10,000 people.
• Georgia is the number one state Gooling butt plugs, coming in at 8.96 searches per 10,000 people.
• Massachusetts is all about the 69 position, with 7.74 searches per 10,000 people.
• Texas keeps it classic with searches for the missionary position at 7.27 per 10,000 people.
• Utah is particularly curious about cunnilingus (4.67), nipple play (1.72) and exploring erogenous zones (0.75)
• Arkansas shows interest in strap-ons, with 1.92 searches per 10,000 people.

It’s interesting to see how diverse the interests are across the country. For instance, who would have thought that Utah, often considered a conservative state, would be so curious about cunnilingus and nipple play? Meanwhile, Virginia's high interest in BDSM highlights a more adventurous side that might surprise some.

These numbers show that Americans are pretty adventurous when it comes to their sexual interests, regardless of where they live. It serves as a reminder that what happens behind closed doors often doesn’t match up with public perceptions of different regions.

The states most likely to ‘play it safe’

While kinks and positions are fun to explore, it’s heartening to see that many states are also prioritizing sexual health and education. Here’s a breakdown of which states are Googling practical topics related to sexual health:

• Georgia leads in pregnancy-related searches at 13.40 per 10,000 people.
• New York tops searches for erectile dysfunction at 11.38 and contraception at 3.38.
• California shows high interest in condoms with 10.40 searches per 10,000 people. Unsurprisingly, they also were the most common state Google ‘birth control methods’ at 0.33 searches per 10,000 people. 
• Massachusetts is keen on sexual education at 7.74 per 10,000 people.
• Nevada leads in STI testing queries with 4.98 searches per 10,000 people.
• Utah, again making an appearance, is curious about ‘sexual satisfaction’ with a high number of searches at 44.00.
• Connecticut focuses on ‘sexual health’ at 0.58 per 10,000 people.

It’s encouraging to see states like California taking the lead in researching birth control methods and condoms, showing a commitment to both pregnancy prevention and safe sex practices. 

New York's high search rates for erectile dysfunction and contraception demonstrate a proactive approach to sexual health issues that many face but may not openly discuss.

Utah’s high number of searches for sexual satisfaction is particularly interesting when combined with their curiosity about kinks; it seems Utahns are not only exploring new things but also ensuring they’re enjoying themselves!

Nevada’s interest in STI testing is vital given its reputation as a party destination where safe practices should be prioritized.

These numbers indicate that people aren’t just curious about pleasure; they’re also concerned about safety and well-being—showing a healthy balance in their approach to sex.

Whether you’re more likely to search for new sex positions to add some extra excitement in the bedroom, you’re curious about giving butt plugs a go, or you want to educate yourself more around safe sex, another important thing to consider is your bed!

Luckily, we’re here with all the help you could need, and you can start off by discovering our pick of the best mattresses for sex, all offering the perfect combination of firmness and comfort.

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